Did a recent breakup with a girl caused your world to crumble? Do the thoughts of her with someone else cause you heartache and pain? You are not alone my friend. Even though you feel like you are the only one in the world going through this you aren't. And what is better is that I am here to tell you that it is going to get better.

Breakups feel terrible that is for sure…but the reality is that they do happen all the time. And because they happen all the time we have a chance to study them and find out what works to stop breakups and bring loving couples back together. I want to show you a simple plan that will give you an edge in getting your ex girlfriend or wife back. This isn't as involved or "perfect" as some of the paid "get your ex back" guides, but I have found success with this plan in the past.

The first step is to understand and accept the situation. You are broken up right now. The sooner you accept that the sooner we can lay out the plan to get her back. Don't smother her, call her non-stop, or email her endlessly asking for one more chance. If this plan goes well you will have her asking you for a second chance…..no kidding.

So, the second step is to let her know in some casual way that you are fine with the breakup situtation and you are moving on. This is the difficult part because for about two weeks you won't be speaking to her.

The third step is to get a fresh look. Whether it is a new hair cut or a fresh looking clothes, change something that makes you look different and desirable. After this period of time passes, you will need to put yourself in a position to run into her. You might have to be creative about this so it doesn't look like you meant to run into her.

When you do run into her be calm, and be mysterious. If she asks you how you are, say you are doing very well. If she asks what you have been up to, say you have been doing a lot of things. This is when she will say that she will call you sometime, or you two should have a drink. It is very important to not jump into this. You must remain mysterious to her, just like you were when you first started dating. Tell her you aren't sure because you have a lot on your plate the next couple of weeks but that you will call her when you have time. This totally switches the situation around! She will now be sitting at home thinking about you and wondering when you will call. Be extremely disciplined about this. Do not text her with how great it was to see her….I am being very serious here. If she thinks she can have you whenever she wants your plan is over.

Step four is to wait your two more weeks, then hook up with her for a drink or something casual. You will have to be strong and play hard to get. I can't stress enough to you how important this part is. It will really go against what your heart is telling you to do. Play hard to get for several weeks always remembering the big picture, and she will be the one asking for you two to get back together soon enough.

Good Luck!

Esteban Torres
January 25th 2009

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