5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex


Relationships are fragile things that need to be carefully built and maintained in order to keep them healthy and able to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen soemtimes, and they are emotionally draining, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that ends prematurely, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but you aren't sure if this is the way to go? One of the best ways that you can actually get back at your ex is by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. This might also go very far in helping you to get your ex back! So not only are these 5 great tips to "get back at your ex" but they are also excellent methods for "getting your ex back" as well. Good Luck.


1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy as they say, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. Being needy is a sign of weakness and after a break up you need to look string. You absolutely need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is desperate. Let your ex believe that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and moving on. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not. This is so important and so often ignored. Be Strong!.....or at least "act strong".


2 - Minimize communication. Closing the lines of communication may appear counterintuitive when your main goal is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most critical steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take some time off from your ex, close off the lines communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact from you. This will give your ex some time to clear his or her mind and realize just how valuable your relationship was and how much you mean to them.


3 - Get the heck out! After a breakup is no time for you to be alone. Call as many of your friends as you can and get out of the house. Build a real social network and enjoy some free time in your life. This may not mean you need to date a lot, or even spend time with the opposite sex, but you do need to go out and enjoy your time with your buddies. Not only will this help clear your mind, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a very good thing.


4- Be flexible. Don't be forceful with your ex, demanding that they get out or have moved their things out by a certain time. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer and be open. Your ex will be surprised when they see this calm and understanding side of you, and it may inspire them to build those lines of communication back up that were lacking when the breakup came to be.


5 - Be yourself. There was a great reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so make sure to go back to being yourself and make sure your ex remembers why they fell in love with you to begin with. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.

Well, there you have it! I hope this helps out a bit....I'll be cheering for you!

Esteban Torres
January 26th 2009

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