After Break Up Sex With Your Ex:
Expert advice on post break up sex.
The after break up sex question seems to come up very often
when I talk to people who have recently gone through a break up
or divorce. Especially with those singles who want to get back
together with their ex lover. I have a very distinct and
sometimes unpopular opinion when it comes to this. Read on…
After break up sex is many times a psychological mind game.
Both people have many questions swirling in their head about
where they stand in the other person's mind. Some people have
good and/or bad intentions when it comes to break up sex. Can I
still hook up with him/her and be broken up? Can I find out if
they are still interested? Will he/she still sleep with me? If
I sleep with him/her will they want to get back together?
Unless you are BOTH totally and completely over the break up
there will be nothing good that comes from hooking up. Trust me
on this. One person is always going to get hurt by this
situation and I am trying to make sure it isn't you. Understand
that having sex with them is not going to make them want to get
back together with you. On the contrary, NOT having sex with
them will give you the best chance of getting them back. It's
Remember when you were young and your parents or teachers told
you that you couldn't do something? You remember how badly you
want to do that thing now that you were told not to? The same
thing is true with break up sex. I am not telling you not to
have sex because it is in your best interest emotionally, or
because you aren't stable enough. I am telling you this because
if you play your cards right, not having sex with them WILL get
them back with you FOR GOOD.
If you don't believe me, try getting almost to the point of
that with them and then stop. Tell them it just isn't such a
great idea given the current situation. Guess who will be
calling you again and wanting to spend some "quality time"
together? You guessed it…… So keep those pants buttoned up
until you get what you really want. When you two are happily
back together and the intimacy is amazing you know who to thank
Best of luck!
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December 14th 2008
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