5 Ways To Get Your Ex Back
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5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex
Relationships are fragile things that need to be carefully
built and maintained in order to keep them healthy and able to
flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen soemtimes, and
they are emotionally draining, stressful and frustrating. If
you are involved in a relationship that ends prematurely, you
may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but you
aren't sure if this is the way to go? One of the best ways that
you can actually get back at your ex is by showing your ex how
important you are and were to them. This might also go very far
in helping you to get your ex back! So not only are these 5
great tips to "get back at your ex" but they are also excellent
methods for "getting your ex back" as well. Good Luck.
1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy as they say, and this
saying applies very well when it comes to broken up
relationships. Being needy is a sign of weakness and after a
break up you need to look string. You absolutely need to stop
begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is
desperate. Let your ex believe that you have moved on just fine
without them by acting strong and moving on. When you've moved
on, your ex will realize that they have not. This is so
important and so often ignored. Be Strong!.....or at least "act
2 - Minimize communication. Closing the lines of communication
may appear counterintuitive when your main goal is to rekindle
things, but it is one of the most critical steps when getting
back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take some time off
from your ex, close off the lines communication, and let him or
her stew for a little while without any contact from you. This
will give your ex some time to clear his or her mind and
realize just how valuable your relationship was and how much
you mean to them.
3 - Get the heck out! After a breakup is no time for you to be
alone. Call as many of your friends as you can and get out of
the house. Build a real social network and enjoy some free time
in your life. This may not mean you need to date a lot, or even
spend time with the opposite sex, but you do need to go out and
enjoy your time with your buddies. Not only will this help
clear your mind, but it will also help convince your ex that
they lost a very good thing.
4- Be flexible. Don't be forceful with your ex, demanding that
they get out or have moved their things out by a certain time.
Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer and be open. Your
ex will be surprised when they see this calm and understanding
side of you, and it may inspire them to build those lines of
communication back up that were lacking when the breakup came
5 - Be yourself. There was a great reason for why you and your
ex had a relationship to begin with, so make sure to go back to
being yourself and make sure your ex remembers why they fell in
love with you to begin with. This renewed self perception of
your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
Well, there you have it! I hope this helps out a bit....I'll be
cheering for you!
January 26th 2009
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